My body belongs to me
[Two-sentence summary of what this teaches, written from its sources.]
If something happened to you, it was not your fault. Learning to protect yourself is never a way of saying otherwise.
Working description: Real names for body parts, privates are private, no secrets about bodies, and my trusted grown-ups.
Start the talk
Say it in your own words. These are the ideas to get across, not a script to read.
The talking points, each numbered to its source. Draw on: K1, K5, K10, K9, K2.
Ask "what would you do?"
Let them answer first. There's no wrong answer, only a chance to talk it through.
Three everyday scenarios a child this age would recognise, from the sources, and what a good answer sounds like.
Try it together
A short activity or game that practises the lesson, from the sources.
If your child tells you something
How to respond calmly if your child tells you something: what to say and not say, never promising to keep it secret, keeping them away from the person, and who to contact. From the sources: Darkness to Light (K15), Stop It Now (K18), the Justice Department's NSOPW (K19) and NCTSN (K20).
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Sources
- Preventing Child Sexual Abuse: What Parents Need to Know (AAP / HealthyChildren.org) (K1)
- 10 Ways to Teach Your Child the Skills to Prevent Sexual Abuse (Child Mind Institute) (K5)
- Talk PANTS (schools) + "What is the Underwear Rule?" (NSPCC (UK)) (K10)
- High Five or Hug? Teaching Toddlers About Consent (ZERO TO THREE) (K9)
- Sexual Behaviors in Young Children: What's Normal, What's Not? (AAP / HealthyChildren.org) (K2)
Summarized from public sources with the help of AI, reviewed by Stacy Willis.